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Friday
Oct112013

Cross Cultural Ministry: A Few Keys

This article is a cross-post from the newsletter of Dan and Patty Schmelzer's Capstone Ministries project in Kisumu, Kenya. Learn more about Capstone Ministries at their website: http://capstoneministries.org/

Cross Cultural Ministry: A Few Keys

“I have become all things to all men, so that by all possible means I might save some.” I Corinthians 9:22

Imagine working on Ellis Island when immigrants were flooding into the USA by the thousands daily. As an orientation officer, your job is to help new arrivals with important information about citizenship, how to live, work and travel in this new land. However you don’t speak the language of those arriving from so many different countries. How would you approach your job? How would you communicate effectively? What might be some potential problem areas?

Being effective in cross cultural ministry involves some of the same situations. Over the past 11 years Patty and I have discovered some keys to being effective in bridging the gap in culture between our western culture and African culture.

PLAN. From the beginning it is vital to understand that as a Christian missionary, you have moved away from your culture and are now living in another culture. That means that the burden for bridging the gap every day is on you, not on those you work with. That affects everything from how you talk, understanding norms of conversation, as well as how you approach theology and learning. In Kenya for example, conversations will circle a topic before addressing the topic at hand. Americans tend to be more abrupt and dive right into an issue. Preaching also is different. Africans are more “eastern” in their approach, using stories and illustrations to teach. Americans tend to be more “western” or conceptual. An African may be more comfortable hearing about God as the Bright Morning Star whereas a westerner might describe God as a source of enlightenment.

But a basic structure to ministry is also a key in planning. Long ago missionaries did everything that needed to be done. Over time we have learned that it is more effective for missionaries to utilize people from the culture to minister to their own people. A missionary becomes more of a trainer of trainers, planner, administrator, motivator, fund raiser and accountant. In this approach, it is also critical to find the right trustworthy, honest, industrious and innovative people to work with the missionary. Capstone is blessed with seven very dedicated staff members and this greatly enhances the effectiveness of the ministry.

PITFALLS The downside of the missionary insisting on doing the work him/herself is many. In Kenya there is a perception that white people have money. This coupled with a history of hand-outs creates a perception by those who have perceived needs. The local people may listen to you politely, all the while intending to ask for and expecting a hand out at the end. Indigenous staff may face some of this but it is certainly less normative.

One temptation that every missionary faces who tries to help people directly is something known as the God-complex. When the recipient of your help calls you “Jesus in the flesh” or says, “You are so wise and we are so blessed by your presence,” humility can be a challenge and an ego can run wild justifying even bad ideas.

A doctor can be extremely gifted but if he makes a mistake in diagnosis, harm can result. The same is true of a missionary diagnosing a social or spiritual setting without local wisdom. This happens often with those who come for a short visit and draw conclusions about how to help street kids based on a few conversations with a street boy.

Other less serious pitfalls can also be experienced by a missionary. Communication issues are one example. Kenyan English sounds much different than American English. Most Kenyans speak with an English accent. Kenya was a former colony of the United Kingdom and Kenyans learned their English from the British. Americans speak faster, slur their words, use slang and idioms foreign to the Kenyan ear. It is not uncommon for an entire sermon to go unheard simply because the American made no effort to communicate as a Kenyan.

PRIDE. All of us love our own country and people with a good heart want to make it better. One reward of our Capstone staff is that they know they are improving the society. When an alcoholic father repents and vows to support his family, when a boy is reconciled with a harsh father and becomes a prayer warrior in school, when Bible study group members minister to each other with love and sacrifice, our staff go home in the evening with a full heart and love to recount the stories in our staff meeting. That is pride in the work of God and the privilege of being an instrument in the hand of God. I believe it is even more powerful and meaningful when that PRIDE is part of the indigenous experience. May we all take pride in our joint efforts to bring reconciliation to the vulnerable children of Kenya through our Kenyan staff.

(This article was a little bit different from other newsletter articles. I wanted to take some time to explain the uniqueness and challenge of cross cultural ministry. Patty and I have learned a lot in our 11 years in Kenya. We are still learning. It is, by far, the most challenging work we have ever done. It is also the most rewarding. I hope you have enjoyed this glimpse into cross cultural ministry.)

Tuesday
Oct082013

To The States for the birth

Today Krista departed for the States, headed to her sister's home in Wisconsin where we'll be for the delivery of the baby. She's traveling alone at 35 weeks pregnant and the boys and I will join her next week. We had to move her ticket up because, as her OB-GYN told her last week, "You're 34 weeks pregnant - why are you so big?" Let's just say bedside manner is a little more matter-of-fact over here. Out of concern that she would, indeed, look bigger than she is, we elected to move Krista's ticket up by a week to get her home well within the airline's limits for flying when pregnant. Meanwhile, I'm home with Josiah (3) and Elijah (1) for a week before I fly with them to the United States all by ourselves. Pray for Krista and then pray for us boys!

-Shauen

Wednesday
Oct022013

My nose is three!

"Papa!" (We're having our bed-time conversation, usually held as I'm trying to close the door and Josiah's trying to delay me closing the door). "Yeah, Josiah?" "My nose is three!" "What?" "My nose is three! If I take off my nose and throw it, it will be a three!" "What?" I open the door wider, shedding a little more light on the very confusing assertion made by my son. "My nose is three!" he insists, as I can now make out that he's tracing around the bottom of his nostrils in, indeed, the shape of a 3. I find myself agreeing with the outlandish assertion. "You're right, buddy. Your nose is a three." I'm pretty sure it is a sign of genius to find numbers on the body at his tender young age.

Saturday
Sep212013

We are safe

Today there was an attack at a mall here in Nairobi. Details are still hazy, and it may be ongoing even as I write. Our family is safe as are all of our LCMS missionaries here on the Kenya Field. We rarely post like this in response to security incidents but this situation is highly visible in the international news and we know you pray for us. We thank and praise The Lord for His protection of our family and our co-workers today. God is good, all the time. And all the time, God is good.

Saturday
Sep212013

Toooo hot = Rain today

"It's going to rain today," the watchman tells me one morning. Looking up at the clear sky I'm a little skeptical but I say, "Oh, yeah?" "Yes. Today is toooo hot. It will rain." I've lived in East Africa almost five years now and this is, indeed, an indicator of rain but not one I've managed to navigate. There is some difference that I can't discern between mornings that are "hot" and those that are "toooo hot." "Toooo hot" means it's going to rain. To me, it just feels hot or not hot. The watchman was right, of course. Showers started that day in the early evening. Maybe he has a weather app on his phone and he's just playin' with me. 

-Shauen

Saturday
Sep212013

Can't live without plastics!

 

Friday
Sep202013

Aunt Shara!

It is 6am. Josiah is calling out from his bedroom. It is a reasonable hour, but it feels extraordinarily early. I stumble into his room but before I can eat utter a word I hear him calling "Aunt Shawa (Shara)!" "What?" I mumble. "Aunt Shawa!" "You want Aunt Shara?" The words slur out of my tired lips, "Aunt Shara's not here. She's at her home and probably asleep right now if she's lucky. Why do you want Aunt Shara?" "But I want Aunt Shawa to visit!" "Okay, buddy. Maybe Aunt Shara can visit later. Please try to go back to sleep." Aunt Shara, I think he's ready for a sleepover!

Thursday
Aug292013

Ostriches throwing toys

"Okay, goodnight Josiah," I say as I close the door. "Papa?" "Yeah, Josiah?" "Pray that an ostrich doesn't throw a toy at my window tonight." "Um. Okay. Let's pray..."
-Shauen
Monday
Aug262013

Mileage on our LandCruiser: 18.8mpg

2000 Toyota LandCruiser VXPeople often ask what kind of mileage we get on our LandCruiser what with it being all-time 4-wheel drive with all the extra heavy equipment (the bull bar alone weighs about 1,000 lbs and we carry two full-size spare tires) and increased drag (from the bull bar, extra headlights, and roof rack). To us, it never really mattered what the mileage is - it just is what it is. The truck and the equipment are necessary for my work so it's not like we have a lot of choice! The truck is a 6-cylinder diesel with a turbo, so that definitely works in our favor with diesel gas a little cheaper than petrol. I did the mileage on a trip I just returned from yesterday - mostly highway miles with limited off-road work and with just me in the car most of the time: 18.8mpg or 12.5 liters/100km (in the rest of the world, we use the helpful metric of liters per 100km to measure fuel economy). So 19mpg is probably the highest we'll ever get between Nairobi traffic at home and "normal" trips upcountry involving considerable off-road use. But 19mpg isn't bad considering the truck's capabilities!

-Shauen

Wednesday
Aug212013

Cherish This Time

It's nights like these about which everyone says, "Oh, just cherish this time - it goes so quickly." Krista Trump's homemade butternut squash soup in its last few minutes simmering, children quietly playing in the playroom... Until you go to get the kids and find that Elijah has removed his dirty diaper and both kids have smeared, squished, and packed the "payload" into a variety of places, including the Lego Duplos. Ah, yes. Cherish these days. You can come over and cherish them for me this evening if you'd like.
-Shauen
Saturday
Aug172013

Josiah makes friends

Playing with some new friends while we wait for the bride to come out so we can take her to the wedding. Beautiful day!

Friday
Aug092013

Josiah Masters the Bicycle

Last month we bought Josiah a bike. We took the pedals off and let him cruise around for a while balance-bike style. Today we put the pedals on. Josiah, 3 and a half years, is master of the bicycle! Yay, Josiah!

Monday
Aug052013

A land of contrasts

Kenya is a land of contrasts. Within about a half-mile of our house are slums, million-dollar homes, and this beauty for hire. There's also a Chrysler 300C limo in this area - just about as long as this one. I have no idea where they can drive it around here. I don't know how it gets over the speed bumps!

Thursday
Aug012013

April-July Field Notes Published

Field Notes for April-July 2013 has been published. This issue of Field Notes included the following articles:

  • Summer Interns Kelly and Alyssa
  • Bishop Emmanuel Makala's Consecration
  • Preparing for Baby Trump
  • Photos in Focus: Trump Boys

Our prayer requests this month include:

  • For continued good health for Krista and Baby Trump
  • For all our staff as we wrap up a very busy season of short-term teams and start the new fiscal year

In Praise

  • For God's blessing in children
  • For a good experience for our summer interns Kelly and Alyssa
  • For finally receiving a waiver of all outstanding penalties and interest on a back-tax issue our Field Office has been struggling with since 2007
  • For the joyous consecration of Bishop Emmanuel Makala

If you haven't seen it yet, download Field Notes - April-July 2013 (PDF format) from thetrumps.org now!

Tuesday
May282013

Making an Impact in East Africa

This video conveys some of the things God is doing in East Africa as recorded at the LCMS headquarters in St. Louis last year.

Tuesday
May282013

Josiah says his evening prayers

Tuesday
May282013

Stop! Go!

Josiah has managed to stretch the nighttime ritual to considerable length. Okay, I'm entirely to blame. He's just so cute and generally well behaved from evening prayers onwards! Our current permutation of the night-time ritual involves two songs that for some reason must be sung while his little, rather freaky, seahorse glows and plays it's competing music. The first we sing is "Jesus Loves the Little Children," which as I sing it has me wondering if it's still socially acceptable in the United States to sing about children who are "red and yellow, black and white." The second song we sing is "I love you, Lord, and I lift my voice…" Josiah sings with me most nights. The other night, as we sang he cried out, "STOP!" which, of course, rather took me by surprise and interrupted the song. He sang a few lines alone and then cried out "GO!" Fortunately, I'm a pretty bright guy so I figured out we were playing "Red Light, Green Light." These nights he still occasionally cries out "STOP!" and "GO!" while we sing. I'm okay with it. Especially as his wavering little voice rises above the evening noises of crickets and frogs, "Take joy, my King, in what you hear. Let it be a sweet, sweet sound in your ear."

-Shauen

Tuesday
May282013

What do parents do?

The last several nights as I tuck Josiah into bed and say goodnight, he calls me back into his room right after I close the door… "Yes, Josiah?" "Go downstairs and cook eggs and talk to Mama and Mama will help you." "Okay, buddy. Good night!" Turns out what Mama and Papa do at night after the kids are in bed isn't any of the things we thought we do - clean up the living room, do the dishes, wipe off the dinner table, relax, visit, catch up, watch a DVD, email friends, or Facebook. To our oldest, at least, the nightly ritual involves cooking eggs. Same same.

-Shauen

Thursday
May232013

Field Film - May 2013

Wednesday
May222013

Why we import all of our medications

We usually bring or ask others to bring to Kenya all of our over-the-counter medications. This article is exactly why we import all of it. Our medicine cabinet has at least a two-year's supply of just about anything you'd need - all from the USA. 

The original posting of this BBC article is available at: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-22574689

My Pikin deaths:
Nigerians jailed over poisoned baby drug

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Two Nigerians have been sentenced to seven years in prison over the deaths of at least 80 children who took adulterated teething medicine.

The officials from the company which made the My Pikin syrup were found guilty by a court in Lagos.

After children started dying in 2008, the mixture was found to contain engine coolant.

The judge also ordered that the company be closed and its assets forfeited to the state.

The paracetamol-based syrup, used for treating sore gums, was found to have been contaminated with diethylene glycol, used as an engine coolant.

It caused the babies' kidneys to fail.

My Pikin means "my baby" in Nigerian pidgin, the language widely used in Lagos.